Our Weekly Sunday Covenant
Love is the spirit of this church
And service is its prayer.
To dwell together in peace,
To seek the truth in freedom,
To tell the truth with responsibility,
And to help one another,
This is our covenant.
Covenant of Right Relations
LISTENING AND SPEAKING
We promise to listen compassionately and speak with care.
Listen from the heart. Use “I” statements when expressing opinions or feelings. In conversation, refrain from blame and judgment. Listen more to understand than to reply. Leave space for others to speak / let your voice be heard (or as our Youth say), “Step Up / Step Back”. Respect different points of view.
WORKING WITH CONFLICT
We promise to address conflicts directly, using openness and compassion.
Assume others have good intentions. Talk to the person directly. Stay engaged with each other through difficult conversations. Be curious about the other side of an issue. Agree to disagree and do so with openness and gentleness. Respect decisions made by the group.
SERVING OUR CHURCH COMMUNITY
We promise to serve our church community with generosity and good humor.
Attend worship and other church events. Say “yes” to service that nurtures you. Honor our commitments. Respect the right to say “no”. Encourage people to make choices that balance their needs with others’ needs. Use humor when appropriate.
HOSPITALITY AND WELCOMING
We promise to practice hospitality and acceptance, welcoming all who enter and encouraging diversity in our congregation.
Greet people warmly. Engage those who are different from us. Welcome newcomers into conversations. At Coffee Hour be intentionally inclusive. Treat others with respect and loving kindness.
FORGIVENESS AND RECONCILIATION
We promise to acknowledge our shortcomings and be willing to forgive those of others.
Acknowledge our own and others’ imperfections. Forgive ourselves and others. Lovingly call each other to account for behavior that is hurtful to others. Treat each other with openness, honesty and fairness.